Whats dating a wm
Then there's the old standby -- that the woman must have some odd fixation on Asian men or Asian culture. Her attributes meld better with the typical "frat boy" WM who also possesses such attributes.
Of course intellectually we know better. And compared to Asian women, White women have more leeway to experience relationships with men of different races.
If my boyfriend constantly ranted and raved about how much he hated asian girls, and how much better white girls are, I would probably lose some respect for him.
Would that mean he doesn't respect his mother, sister, cousins?
Just as there are many independent-minded Asian men who see through blonde bimbo stereotypes to the real qualities of white women, there are white women who ignore stereotypes about Asian men. This has been the case thus far and is what has given them more social tolerance compared to other races.
"This is based on the assumption that the "white" partner, as a member of the majority race has the control in the relationship, i.e.
By the way, I like that you don't beat around the bush and just lay your opinions on the line. It was funny when you said "The WF is accepting of the AM because she thinks he may not be as boorish and arrogant as the typical "frat boy" WM (he is a nice guy)." This totally struck a chord with me!
There are some great white men, but I personally can't stand the frat boy type that only cares about drinking beer and picking up girls.
Unfortuantely, there are many indian, black, mexican, asian guys who put white women up on a pedestal. I could be wrong, but that is what it seems like to me. Even though he is 5'11", he's several inches shorter than some guys, so he had better be very aggressive or demonstrate excellent qualities as a mate and companion for her to choose him.I highly disagree with your statement that WFs don't date AMs for who they are. What do they think of their fathers, brothers, uncles, etc?No, white men are not perfect, but neither are asian men.It was really the first two that attracted me to him most, I don't care that much about being wealthy, as long as I'm comfortable. I've had bad experiences dating black, white and asian men, as well as good ones.It's not as though I decided I would never date a white man again. It bothers me when I see other white women putting down white men.