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Yet over the past few years, we’ve also seen writers on feminist websites and social media state that everything from one night stands to watching violent pornography to using Tinder is “empowering.”These beliefs are often labeled as “sex positive,” and questioning or criticizing them could easily be branded as “slut shaming.”It seems like many feminists who initially embraced the ideas behind sex positivity simply wanted to erase the stigma of being a woman who enjoys sex. But how did we go from “You shouldn’t judge a woman negatively just because she has casual sex” to “sleeping with guys who are basically strangers is empowering?
”I don’t want to sound too harsh or judgmental here — even if I am coming across that way, that’s not my goal, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong or immoral with saying that you, personally, have enjoyed one night stands in the past.
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It’s time to explore what role the “sex positivity” movement within feminism has played in scenarios like this.
I wrote a whole fucking article about it back in the day. Maybe because so many people have weighed in on this story already, maybe because I feared that my previous admiration of Aziz would leave me with an inability to be objective, maybe because I don’t want to be accused of “shaming” anyone for their sex life or preferences — but I’m writing it anyway.
Cool, I’m 100% on board — And then we hear some feminists saying that watching porn regularly is a totally healthy expression of sexuality, being critical of porn is for prudes, and hey, maybe you should even watch porn with your boyfriend to spice up your sex life, despite the fact that so much porn depicts violence against women — often young women labeled as “teens.” Some women have commented on the fact that a few of Aziz’s “moves” that made Grace so uncomfortable sounded like they were straight out of a clip on Porn Hub, so it’s worth mentioning that porn can have a negative influence on our expectations surrounding sex — and while many feminists do acknowledge this, others still insist on supporting the porn industry.
Grace’s encounter is so common in the age of hook-up culture — just like we saw with the reaction to the story “Cat Person,” which also depicted a young woman going home with an older guy and having awkward sex which she didn’t really want but never said no to, hundreds of women are posting about how they’ve been in Grace’s shoes before.
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