Are you dating an alpha female
See Foe Romance Subtext for the less explicit version of this, and Fatal Attraction when it's more dangerous. "Finally - The World's Most Powerful Method For Attracting Beautiful Women..." Controversial?
The one-sided version of this may be a Villainous Crush.
I was just hanging out and joking around with them when I saw an extremely attractive woman that I wanted to meet and get her phone number.
The old "me" would have sat there trying to figure out just the right thing to say, and I would have waited and waited, eventually coming up with an excuse not to go talk to her.
Every guy in the group was envious of me, and my friend Jeff even said something like "Yeah, I decided to pass on her and let you have a shot..." Yeah, right.
I knew the real deal: My friends were just as nervous and intimidated by a beautiful woman as I USED to be.